Bliss Is Your Birthright

Life is not meant to be total drudgery.  Life can and is joyful ... if you allow it to be!  Bliss is your birthright.  Living a blissful life actually comes naturally for us.  Unfortunately, through lifetimes of programming - some of it well-intentioned, some of it not - many of us have developed behavioral and thought patterns that block bliss at every turn.  But it's there, just waiting for us to invite it in.  I've spent a lifetime experimenting with how to do that.  In fact, that's how Experiments In Bliss was birthed into being.  It has been through decades of trial and error that I have learned how to overcome debilitating thoughts and beliefs and replace them with blissful, luxurious moments.  And it's an ongoing process that fosters my own cyclical personal evolution.  

Let me be perfectly clear here:  This is 'tortoise race' long game kind of work.  There really is no endpoint.  It requires consistency and diligence and courage.  The good news is that it gets easier the more we do it.  In fact, once you get through the initial deconditioning and reprogramming, it can become fun.  

It's also important to note that living a blissful life does not mean a life in which everything is perfect all the time.  What is does mean is that we are better equipped to understand and effectively navigate the challenges and difficulties when they arise.  Blissful living means consciously choosing how you experience any situation that presents so that every moment is one of full-sensory experience and growth.

I consider it such a privilege to share what I've learned with my beautiful clients.  Nothing lights  me up more than watching someone I'm working with begin to break down her/his barriers and start living a life of presence, sovereignty and magick.  I feel so absolutely blessed to be able to fulfill my purpose by helping others fulfill their own. 

It is my belief that we are all here in this life with a specific mission created by our Soul.  I also believe that we have so many tools that we can use to piece together a brilliant blueprint that will help us determine and achieve that directive while we're here.  There is no one perfect cocktail of tools that will work for everyone - we're all unique beings - but there are some tools that I have found that give more accurate information than others when navigating things like understanding our purpose, figuring out how to leverage our gifts and minimize the damage from our shadows, and how we can work with our own powers of intuition to make decisions that will get us where we want to go with greater ease and speed.  I use tools such as astrology, human design, my own intrinsic intuitive/channeling gifts, Shadowcraft, psychology practices, and a deep well of wellness, lifestyle, and spirituality experience to help you pinpoint what you want, what you're missing, and what you are realistically able to do to transform and expand your life experience.

No life is sparkly and sunshiny all the time.  For a fruitful harvest, we have to experience some rain, and, occasionally some pruning.  But it's learning how to receive the gifts of the rainy seasons, and to recognize when and where to prune to encourage more prolific growth.  It's a beautiful and ancient wisdom, and I look forward to sharing it with you.


Thank you, truly, for trusting me with your process.  I promise, if you commit to this dance with your own inner Mysteries; if you are brave enough to see and be seen completely as you truly are; and if you stay diligently consistent in the process, you will soon look up to discover you're living a life of bliss.  

If you're feeling the call deep in your bones to embark on this journey, then now's the time to answer it.  Click the link below to arrange a free introductory chat with me.  We can explore where you are needing help and how I can facilitate your process.  I look forward to connecting with you.  

I'm so excited to meet you, and see if we are a good fit for working together.  This is a such a transformative process.  I am so honored to hold space for you as you embark on your own journey of personal alchemy. Until then ... remember:  Bliss is your birthright!




Personalized attentive one-on-one guidance helps you identify what your dreams, desires, and priorities are, and to develop strategies for curating YOUR vision of a blissful life.  Some of the issues that might be addressed during a Personal Alchemy session are:

  • rediscovering how to invite fun and luxury into your daily life

  • pinpointing and reframing the subliminal imprinted patterns that are keeping you from reaching your full potential

  • learning about your natural strengths, weaknesses, and inclinations by understanding the foundations of your astrological natal chart and basic human design

  • establishing real-life structures and routines for healthy, blissful living

  • getting clarity around what it is that really ignites your passion

  • learning to work with and trust your own intuition to make decisions that serve and expand you 

  • learning how to improve your overall quality of life in ways that feel realistic and deeply resonant for you

  • creating meaningful and blissful rituals

  • learning how to live more closely with the cycles of Nature, of the human body, and of life

  • learning meditation techniques that are both effective and enjoyable

  • bringing more practical magick into your daily life

  • establishing personally aligned ways to implement ceremonial magick in your life

  • moving safely through Shadowcraft and deep personal inquiry + honesty

  • learning to recognize when you are giving your power away to others, and how to effectively reclaim it

  • creating a life that accurately reflects YOUR values, desires, and beliefs

  • and more …

These Personal Alchemy sessions are as individual as the clients who request them.  My style of guidance is both practical and intuitive.  I tailor these relationships to the needs and desires of each individual client.  I employ a combination of gentle compassionate feminine support and assertive masculine guidance.  I offer radically honest reflection to my clients, which can sometimes be a difficult and sobering mirror.  But, I also share clear strategies for moving through those Shadows safely and as gracefully as possible.  And I will ALWAYS hold safe and loving space for you as you process and progress on your journey.  


Think of this as kind of like a Queer Eye makeover, except instead of five fabulous gay guys helping you, it's one blissful betty giving you tools and tips on how to improve multiple areas of your life.


These sessions contain elements of both practical advice (I have a ton of Virgo energy in my star chart), and more esoteric wisdom (hey ... I just said 'star chart').  You always have a choice as to how much of each shows up in your sessions.  Not a fan of the woo woo?  No problem!  We'll keep it nice and pragmatic for you!  Hard-boiled dogmatic strategies leave your spirit feeling stifled?  Easy peasy!  We'll brew you up some metaphysical mojo that will get the wind beneath your wings.  This is YOUR experience.  We'll make it what YOU need and desire.


I offer a variety of containers for these sessions so you can choose the level of support that best suits your individual needs.  Each container is described in detail below.  


Each container begins with an in-depth consultation. This conversation allows us to go deeper into your specific needs, lifestyle and scheduling requirements, and progress style. It is during this consult that we can also confirm that you've chosen the right Personal Alchemy container for your desired outcome and output abilities. The consult usually lasts between 30 minutes and an hour, and can be done via audio or video chat.


This option is for those of you who are autonomous self-starters that just need a little help getting organized. The Independent Study Container offers a one-time written outline of practices you can implement into your life in whatever ways feel good for you. There is no interactive support. Once you get your outline, it's up to you to decide what to do with it, and how to tweak it as you go. 


This option is for you if you're looking for a little more hand-holding than the Independent Study offers. The One Moon Container lasts a full moon cycle, though, to make it a little easier on everyone, we'll call it a full calendar month. You will have full dedicated support during this time in the form of emails, calls, cheerleading, question answering and progress reports. I will email you at the beginning of every week with a list of "homework" assignments. You will have unlimited email access to me during the week to ask questions or get clarifications, or even to ask for support or to celebrate a win. At week's end, we will have a call date to discuss your progress, accomplishments, any triggers that came up for you and how you're feeling about it all. Each week's plan will be tweaked based on the prior week's feedback, so you should have an understanding of how to keep yourself going by the end of the month.


This option is for those of you who are really ready to dive in and make some solid changes. You are committed to transforming your life to one of bliss and wonder. You know if will be an undertaking, but you're up for the challenge. You, dear one, understand that to truly find the light, you must be willing to walk through the darkness of the shadows. You understand that it takes time to create lasting change. You also appreciate having the support and wisdom of a guide through that journey. The One Season Container includes everything in the One Moon Container, but it runs for three calendar months, or the length of one season.


For those of you who are interested in continuing to work together after completing a container, you can add another cycle at a 10% discount. This offer is only good, however, if used within the same time frame of your original container. (Ie; If you just completed a One Moon Container, you have one month to add discounted cycle. If you just completed a One Season Container, you have three months to add a discounted cycle.)

NOTE: There is no restriction on which cycle you may add.


You'll also receive the following with each 1:1 Personal Alchemy container you purchase:

  • unlimited email access to me during the course of your chosen container (NOTE: Does not apply to The Independent Study Container.)

  • proprietary downloadable tools containing exercises, methodologies, rituals, wisdom, practices, and other valuable resources suited to your particular needs and desires

  • pay-in-full incentives

  • payment plans for those who need/desire them

  • my unwavering support and faith in your ability to make your bliss reality


My time and expertise are valuable.  I am very selective about the clients with whom I work.  I say this to be fully transparent about the fact that I am only interested in working 1:1 with clients who are 110% committed to living their most magickal, blissful lives.  If you are ready and willing to bravely and lovingly meet the Shadows within and fully integrate them, Personal Alchemy is for you.  If you are feeling the call deep in your bones to return to your natural state of bliss, Personal Alchemy is for you.  If you know in your heart the value of consciously choosing your experience in every moment of every day, and you're ready to make a comparable investment in yourself, then you are who I created these Personal Alchemy sessions for.  And you are the kind of client who will benefit most from working with me.  Click the button below to start a conversation with me about how to begin the process.  I'm so excited to meet you!


Bliss is your birthright.  Let's work together to help you reclaim it.  One-on-one coaching is the ultimate way to invest in yourself and to create your most blissful life!

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Melanie Hayes
NCLMBT #4875, E14883, CYT